mother & daughter

this lady made the hot gossip again, she was cursing her two daughters and (again) it was taped on camera. *sigh*.
PS : for non Indonesian blogger, her daughter is a not-so-famous-movie star-but-everybody-know-her -since-she-often-on -TV-staring-that-horror-movie.

I remember when she did that (swearing on her daughter) years ago, I guess everybody remember and got chilled, we (as a daughter then a mother) won't ever ever do things like that. There was a very bad words, scary cursing - she said she was in her deepest regret to gave birth to such a sinful daughter, she was in her deepest anger (yes, It was on TV!)

on this current cursing, she accused that her two daughter didn't paid her a visit when she was hospitalized not paying the hospital fare neither, so she sold her fixed asset top another Indonesian celebrities. It was also on the screen, she pulled one of her daughter hair and scratch her face!
Off course, the daughters denial that, when her mother just go mad and wild, she just keep her mouth shut.

Anyway, I have met this lady on person my self. I was in operation room when Kevin went for his circumcision surgery on September 2006. We (me and my husband) didn't recognized her at first, but when she had a slight conversation with us, my husband recognized her at that moment.
She was with a-look like- 15-year-old-teen, who (as her confession) is her surrogate daughter who stand next to her bed . I was feeling sorry for her, she was going to have a surgery on her back bone, and has no mental support from her family.
*long sigh*

well, I 'm not judging who is right or wrong here but I just don't want turn out to be rebellious daughter to my parents eventough I had some disagreements with my mom. And I don't want cursing on my babies with such bad and appropriate words. I hope their problem will be clear very soon, and they will have that beautiful relationship between mother and daughter back.

photo taken from here

tribute to that rocker star

ya, saya baru ingat,
dulu waktu saya sepuluh tahun, saya bertemu dengan beliau di kediaman orangtua saya, saat itu masih di Puri Indah. Beliau temen dari salah satu saudara mama. :)
saat itu dia sedang jaya-jayanya...

dan dengan bangga saya perlihatkan ke teman2x saya bahwa Agenda saya (yang SDnya pertengahan tahun 80-an pasti punya deh buku agenda yang diisi
Nama
Alamat :
Cita2x:
Kata Kenangan:



bahwa agenda saya itu ditulis dengan handwriting beliau lengkap dengan tanda tangan dan foto beliau. Tadi sempat mencari foto-foto lama itu, namun sejak orang tua pindah akhir tahun lalu, barang-barang dari rumah lama belum dibereskan semua.

Yang saya ingat, almarhum humoris, cuek dan tidak sombong.Jauh dari kesan roker kondang. Tahun 80-an itu, berapa orang siy yang jadi artis, TV saja masih TVRI. Mbak Tini, mbak saya saat itu juga ikut2x minta foto dan tanda tangan beliau,

beberapa tahun kemudian ada Tabligh Akbar di kampus saya, bintang utamanya siy ustad seribu umat itu, beliau hanya jadi 'band pembuka" kalau dianalogikan dengan konser musik
Setelah berbagi pengalaman rohaninya di mimbar, dimana beliau dulu sangat akrab dengan miras dan obat terlarang. setelah itu, tanpa berbasa basi lama beliau langsung pulang.
Saya enggan menyapanya, pasti om itu sudah tidak ingat saya lagi.

-kenangan saya tentang Gito Rollies-

this is it!

I need a break...a loooongggggg one. Haven't been to Bali for almost 3 years, I need coming back there again. That was a sunset in Tanah Lot, Bali. Beautiful isn't it?

PS : I'm tired of being narsis

after abandoning this blog from couple of months, looks like I'll be back writing in this virtual home.
rumah satunya cuma buat mosting potoh2x aja ah....unless buat posting2x untuk orang2x tertentu saja....

I'm-43-fast

ok, I got the tag from another philippines blogger, this time Ellen gave me this interesting game.
well, ellen I actually tried 3 times
I am using my lap top, I can do better if I use my PC

Here the result:
43 words

Speedtest

allright then, I'll pass it to indahjuli, riri, and bunda tiara, and napaboaniya,my singaporean friends.
monggo jeng dikerjakan...
it means : go head guys, do it!

I'm a cockroach

there you go, I was tagged by Mica, my new Phillipine blogger friend who currently live in states, (btw, you're a pinoy, right? you look like an Indonesian to me :P). She did a good job updating her blog. :-D

so I just copied this and spread it to the world...



an As$ : A very loyal and sweet person. Your loyalty can never be doubted. You are quite honest and sincere when it comes to your attitude towards working. You are a very simple person, indeed. Absolutely hassle free, humble, and down-to-earth! That explains the reason why your friends cling on to you! You have a good taste for clothes. If your wardrobe is not updated with what is trendy, you sure are depressed. Popular and easy-going. You have a little group of dignified friends, all of them being quality-personified.

LOOK UP YOUR BIRTHDAY AND SEE WHAT YOU ARE. FORWARD ON TO PEOPLE THAT YOU THINK THAT WOULD GET A KICK OUT OF THIS... INCLUDING THE PERSON WHO SENT IT TO YOU. PUT YOUR BIRTHDAY ANIMAL IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND PASS IT ON.

Don't forget to scroll down to see what it says about you.

January 01 - 09 ~ As$ (i replaced s to $)
January 10 - 24 ~ Slug
January 25 - 31 ~ Cockroach
February 01 - 05 ~ Parasite
February 06 - 14 ~ Bullfrog
February r y 15 - 21 ~ Skunk
February 22 - 28 ~ Snake
March 01 - 12 ~ Ape
March 13 - 15 ~ Cockroach
March 16 - 23 ~ Slug
March 24 - 31 ~ Parasite

April 01 - 03 ~ As$ (i replaced s to $)
April 04 - 14 ~ Snake
April 15 - 26 ~ Slug
April 27 - 30 ~ Skunk
May 01 - 13 ~ Slug
May 14 - 21 ~ Bullfrog
May 22 - 31 ~ Cockroach
June 01 - 03 ~ Slug
June 04 - 14 ~ Skunk
June 15 - 20 ~ As$ (i replaced s to $)
June 21 - 24 ~ Ape
June 25 - 30 ~ Parasite

July 01 - 09 ~ Slug
July 10 - 15 ~ As$ (i replaced s to $)
July 16 - 26 ~ Bullfrog
July 27 - 31 ~ Parasite
August 01 - 15 ~ Ape
August 16 - 25 ~ Slug
August 26 - 31 ~ Skunk
September 01 - 14 ~ Bullfrog
September 15 - 27 ~ As$ ( i replace s to $)
September 28 - 30 ~ As$ (i replaced s to $)

October 01 - 15 ~ Ape
October 16 - 27 ~ Skunk
October 28 - 31 ~ Snake
November 01 - 16 ~ Cockroach
November 17 - 30 ~ Parasite
December 01 - 16 ~ As$ (i replaced s to $)
December 17 - 25 ~ Ape
December 26 - 31 ~ Bullfrog


If you are an As$ (i replaced s to $): A very loyal and sweet person. Your loyalty can never be doubted. You are quite honest and sincere when it comes to your attitude towards working. You are a very simple person, indeed. Absolutely hassle free, humble, and down-to-earth. That explains the reason why your friends cling on to you! You have a good taste for clothes. If your wardrobe is not updated with what is trendy, you sure are depressed. Popular and easy-going. You have a little group of dignified friends, all of them being quality-personified...

If you are a Slug : Always up to some sort of a mischief! The mischievous gleam in your eyes is what makes you so cute and attractive to everyone. You are an extremely fun-to-be-with kind of person. No wonder people seek your company and look forward to include you for all get-together's. However, you are sensitive which is a drawback. People need to select their words while talking to you. If someone tries to fiddle around and play with words while dealing with you, it is enough to invite your wrath. God bless the person then!

If you are a Cockroach : Quite contradictory to your name, you are a peace loving person. You best try to avoid a situation wherein you are required to fight. An outdoor person, you dislike sitting at one place for a long duration. You are a born leader, and have it in you how to tactfull! y deriv e work from people. You love being loved and when you receive your share of limelight from s omeone, you are all theirs! Well, well... Hence some people could even take an advantage, flatter you to the maximum and get their work done. So be careful.....

If you are a Parasite : An extremely lovable, adorable person, sometimes shy, with a passion for quick wit. At times, you prefer quietness. You love exploring various things and going into depth of each thing. Under normal circumstances you're cool but when given a reason to, you are like a volcano waiting to erupt. You're a fashion bird. People look forward to you as an icon associated with fashion. Basically, you mingle along freely but don't like talking much to strangers. People feel very easy in your company. You observe care in choosing your friends.



If you are a Skunk : You are near to perfect and nice at heart! . The e xamples of your kindness are always circulated in groups of people. You, too, love peace. You wouldn't like to retaliate even to a person who is in the wrong. You are loved due to this. You do not wish to talk behind one's back. People love the way you always treat them. You can give, give, and give love, and the best part is that you do not expect it back in return. You are generous enough. Seeing things in a practical light is what remains the best trait of you guys.



If you are a Bullfrog : You symbolize a very happy-go-lucky approach in life. Whatever the surroundings may be, grim or cheerful, you remain unaffected. In fact, you spread cheer wherever you go. You are the leader of your group of fri ends! and go od at consoling pe ople in their times of need. You dislike hypocrisy and tend to shirk away from hypocrites. They can never be in your good books, no matter what. You are very methodical and organized in your work. No amount of mess, hence, can ever encompass you. Beware, it is easy for you to fall in love....

If you are a Snake : You are mysterious. You are someone who can handle pressure with ease, and can handle any atmosphere without going berserk. You can be mean at times, and love to gossip with your selected group. Very prim and proper. You like all situations and things to be in the w! ay you desire, which, sometimes is not possible. As a result, you may lose out in some relationships. But otherwise, you love to help people out from difficult and tight spots when they really need you.

If you are an Ape : Very impatient and hyper! You want things to be done as quick as possible. At heart, you are quite simple and love if you are the center of attraction. That way, you people are unique. You would like to keep yourself safe from all the angles. Shall your name be dragged or featured in any sort of a controversy, you then go all panicky. Therefore, you take your precautions from the very beginning. When you foresee anything wrong, your sixth sense is what saves you from falling in traps. Quite a money minded bunch you people are!!

I like to tag sili, ina, mutia, and intan

missing you

it has been 7 weeks,
and I'm still miss you,
and still in my regret why I barely had you on the phone.

If only those Duri business trip hasn't been postponed,
I wanted to hold you thight, and never let you go.
I miss you grandma,
I really do...

benar2x menyebalkan : Asuransi Sequislife

Update : lihat dari traffic di feedjit, banyak yang akses posting ini. Dibagian bawah akan gue tambahin komentar dari beberapa rekan blogger, so I didn't made this thing up! Banyak yang kecewa juga sama perusahaan ini.

Ugh, sejak kejadian sangat tidak menyenangkan dari customer service tuh perusahan rese itu, gue sebenarnya udah malas berhubungan lagi di tuh asuransi. cuma kata suami gue nanggung, kita udah place deposit disana.kejadian kan...

gue udah bayar premi asuransi dari sebulan yang lalu...kemaren dapat pemberitahuan gue belum menerima pembayaran, dan polis asuransi gue mau dibatalkan.
Ngga ngerti gue sistem kerja mereka...??? apa mesin fax mereka ngga sanggup nerima kopi bukti pembayaran premi,capek deh.

satu hal yang belum gue tulis di postingan sebelumnya, ketika komplain gue melalui email, pihak
Care: bilang
surat diterima tangal 12 Februari 2007 dan suami gue sendiri yang menerima.

padahal tanggal 12 feb itu, pagi hari beliau sudah berangkat ke India! kalo tiketnya masih ada pengen gue attach deh lepas tanggung jawab, mungkin? atau halusinasi tukang pos?


gue cuma email mereka, trauma gue ama perkataan kasar Customer Service mereka, inget susahnya menelpon bagian CS mungkin jam masuk disana sesuka hati kali ya. Buat yang ngga bisa online ditelpon teross mana sempet follow up lageee...
kalo ngirim "brosur rayuan"...weh, kertasnya bagus banget....sayang juga hutan dunia dipangkas untuk omong kosong perusahaan itu(kertas dibuatnya dari kayu bukan....????)

yang lagi BT...
yang lagi BT...
yang lagi BT...

berharap tuh perusahaan diakusisi perusahaan lain yang lebih baik....

Update : ini beberapa komentar dari blog gue di Multiply dan postingan gue tahun lalu
biarkan orang menilai....


hylmilateef wrote on Feb 28
aduh, ..... saya ini ibunya mba ....eh, barusan saya cerita tentang asuransi yang mba pake ke suami saya, dan suami saya cerita kalau temannya pake asuransi yang sama, dan tau ngga mba, katanya sampe si temennya ini lulus sekolah dan lulus kuliah dan sampe kerja ....dan ..... sampe akhirnya pindah kerja ke tempat sekarang ini, klaim asuransinya baru bisa keluar. bukannya nakutin, cuma pengen berbagi apa yang saya dengar dari suami ....


waahh...sama tuh gw jg punya pengalaman menyebalkan sama sequislife! awalnya gw ambil asuransi pendidikan di metlife, selama masih dipegang metlife, gw ga pernah ada masalah, tiap bulan dikasih billing statement, tiap tahun dikasih kalender gratis, etc.trus gak lama kemudian metlife diambil alih sama sequislife. mulai deh ribet dan menyebalkan!jadi dari awal cara pembayaran gw selalu didebet pake kartu kredit. trus pernah sampe berbulan2 kartu kredit gw ga didebet, tau2 asuransi gw angus! kalo mau di reinstate lagi musti bikin surat kuasa baru, isi form lagi bayar denda pula!yang bikin gw sebel, kok GAK ADA surat pemberitahuan dari sequislife, kalo mmg ada perubahan?! gw nanya ke sequislife juga sama kayak pengalaman kiky, ga ada tanggapan... ribet banget ngurusinnya. stlh gw post email di website mereka ngomel panjang lebar, baru deh ada yg bales.setelah kejadian ga enak yg pertama diatas, taun ini terulang lagi kartu kredit gw ga didebet dan GAK ADA pemberitahuan dari sequislife kl mrk ga bisa debet kartu kredit gw. jadi sama mereka dibiarin aja ga didebet, biar nasabahnya musti byr denda banyak kali ya! sebel kan..padahal kalo bank ato asuransi lain gw selalu terima pemberitahuan, baik itu billing atau masalah lain.bener2 ga professional deh.. kyknya buat mereka, kita sebagai nasabah/ klien tuh ga penting! makanya pelayanannya seenaknya.aku nyesel deh tau gitu dulu ambil tabungan pendidikan di bank yang bagus aja, daripada di perusahaan asuransi yang ga jelas, jadinya malah ribet sendiri... hh..
By Anonymous, at 10:56 AM

cerita payung besar

"saya disuruh bapak jadi ojek payung" kata anak kelas 5 SD O1 Mampang itu
"kenapa?"
"ibu saya sakit2xan,tante...batuk2x terus, belum sembuh2x"

percakapan saya dengan seorang tukang ojek payung yang terpaksa saya pakai jasanya.
Payung lipat saya tak kuasa menahan hujan besar dan angin kuat yang berhembus,sementara saya harus segera tiba ditujuan pada kamis sore itu, dari gedung ratu plaza ke Plaza Senayan lewat pintu belakang.

" hmmm, mungkin anak ini hanya menjual iba" pikir saya sedikit sinis.
mendekati tujuan

"Saya ngga punya payung besar seperti ini" kata saya berbohong
"berapa harganya?"
"saya nyewa tante Rp 15.000/semalaman"
"hah? mahal juga donk. Berapa kamu dapat semalaman?"
"kalo hujan nanti sampai jam 10 saya bisa dapat Rp 20 ribu"

dan uang yang dia bawa pulang hanya Rp 5000
dan (kalau dia tidak berbohong) kaki kecil itu harus berjalan
dari Sudirman ke Mampang.
Iba saya pun datang juga....

still countinue...

how come my life become misereable when I turned 30

- I should be careful with my mouth *sigh*
- Lots of bill, extra ordinary ones have to settled..it even exceeded my salary *long sigh*
- I got stuck on the way to the office
- My baby boy was claimed to be malnutrion *sigh*

argrrrrgggh... i need a break, a LONGGGGGGG one!

a melting pot (of my posting)

My life is a bitch lately, but lots of things made me happy aswell:

• I got 2008 friendship contract from Ameera’s mom . Sorry it took a while to thank you. You know what had happend to me, and I'd like to pass this contract to:

• IndahJuli, some peole think we look alike eventhough both of us sure I’m much skinnier than her *peace,sis*. I learnt a lot from her, a very sincere friend.

• Inawati Chen, my collage buddy…back in those years, everytime I went for a dine in Grogol with her, she’s the one that assured I had Halal Food.

• Silvi who's expecting her third precious. Safe labor,sis.

• I enjoy my new photoblog, I even made friends with world wide bloggers and even some of great photographers from the other side of this earth --- place(s) I’ve never been to --- stop by.

• Sylvi (not that silvi I mentioned before) will take me for another business trip, where she knows I’m dying to fly there, eventhough I realized she just using me since I know she’s a coward, she hate to sleep alone. Hahahha, I’m just kidding.

• I’ll meet an old friend this noon. It has been 8 years since our last reunion, so lots of things (read: gossips) has to be updated.

• Lastly…I’ll tell you latter lah…*wink*, it has to be confirmed first.

PS : IF THIS POSTING EVER CROSS My Multiply, (I enabled the cross posting facility between blogger & multiply, some time it works sometime it doesn't) I’ll pass that friendship contract to all my contacts in MP. Thank you for all the fun.

home

daddy already fly back to India (but probably still in Cengkareng Airport by now),
but the the nurse already take the "tube" away yesterday, so...
Today, we're home! Yay.



Nope, he isn't sick,he just pretending to be sleeping, enjoying this bed in his good shape
since both of us promise we don't want to sleep in this bed again :). Hopefully.
This is the third time he was hospitalized,
But he still have 4 schedules of fisiotheraphy, and back to see the pediatric on Friday.

anyway, thank you for all the prays aunties and uncles.
and thanks tante day, tante indah and tante komy for visiting us.

...

ketika Tuhan sekali lagi mengingatkanku untuk pasrah dan ikhlas...
melihat keceriannya lenyap, terduduk lemas...
*mohon doa teman2x, Kevin masuk rumah sakit karena demam tinggi yang naik turun*

wondering

bukittingi 29 Februari - 1 maret 2008

pergi...engga...
pergi...engga...
pergi...engga...
pergi...engga...
pergi...engga...
...
???
ongkosin donk, korban bajir neh

*andai nenek masih ada, pasti gue bela-belain*

kebanjiran lagee

akhirnya yang gue takutin kejadian. :(
sempet2xnya upload photo...ya...gethu deh. :P
foto2x disini.

duh, hujan belum berhenti

hari ini tepat setahun rumah gue kebanjiran...hiks...
semoga ngga banjir lagi....*berdoa*